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Originally uploaded: December 28th, 2022<br/><br/>Youtube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/9DU0ZrzfT90<br/><br/>https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson<br/><br/>*I'm behind on Dailymotion<br/><br/>Original Youtube Description:<br/><br/>Real life shows who real. <br/><br/>Connect With Me:<br/>BONFIRE: NEW SHIRTS OUT NOW! https://www.bonfire.com/aleshapeterson/<br/>BONFIRE STORE: https://www.bonfire.com/store/aleshapeterson/<br/>Tik Tok: Dinnerrollgirl <br/>Facebook: Alesha \
Originally uploaded: December 28th, 2022<br/><br/>Youtube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/9DU0ZrzfT90<br/><br/>https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson<br/><br/>*I'm behind on Dailymotion<br/><br/>Original Youtube Description:<br/><br/>Real life shows who real. <br/><br/>Connect With Me:<br/>BONFIRE: NEW SHIRTS OUT NOW! https://www.bonfire.com/aleshapeterson/<br/>BONFIRE STORE: https://www.bonfire.com/store/aleshapeterson/<br/>Tik Tok: Dinnerrollgirl <br/>Facebook: Alesha \
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_217-i-have-a-question-could-you-turn-someone-on-to-an-opportunity-without-this-fear.webp "Originally uploaded: December 23rd, 2022<br/><br/>YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/HCsFaCOYczg?feature=share<br/><br/>https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson<br/><br/>*I'm behind on Dailymotion<br/><br/>Original Youtube Description: <br/><br/>Could you do this?<br/>Could you clap for others even if their successes comes before you? <br/><br/>Can you turn someone on to an opportunity without the fear of them getting ahead of you? Can you root for someone's successes like it's your own, even if it means they get theirs before you get yours?...Can you clap for someone else until your time comes if called to do so?<br/><br/>I bring this up because I apply this a lot. I'm at the start of my journey. Sometimes it's a matter of finding your people where you can really blossom. (They are not worried about my Youtube channel over here, they got their own...their grass is greener, but I'm happy I got my own yard too. You can be happy for others, and still be a light in your own right at the same time. Take a lesson from Kelly Rowland and Miss Nigeria.) It can be done, but you can learn mindsets to not get intimidated by someone' successes, but to propel you to grow as a person. <br/><br/>People in our age group? We compare and compete with each other too much. It's ridiculous. The time you spend trying to keep up with the Joneses could be time you could spend growing as a person. The question is which path are you going to choose? <br/><br/>Being jealous or hating on someone is not going to serve you. Can you reframe your mindset to see someone's successes as an opportunity to learn and grow, to see how far you can get in your breakthrough? Instead of seeing someone's success as someone taking away from you (because trust me, no one is taking from you...they put in the work that most won't to live a life most don't).Maybe you secretly wish you could do the same things, or maybe you feel like they got theirs, and you haven't gotten yours, and it's being thrown up in your face. <br/><br/>Remember to not compare your day 1 to someone else's day 400. You never know what someone went through to get where they are today. If you can't be happy for someone, unpack and figure out why. Maybe their successes put a spotlight on your biggest insecurities....I will tell you, gossiping about someone, cutting someone, or talking negatively about someone who you think got ahead of you won't do it. Building your skills, finding your lane, finding your own talents, addressing those jealousies and insecurities and having blind faith will.<br/><br/>What's blind faith? Blind faith is believing you will be successful, even if it hasn't happened in real life, you have to learn how to believe in what you can't see. I was called all kinds of names by my peers, but it's not so crazy now that it's happening in real life, correct? No matter how \")
_233-when-they-don39t-know-you-they-make-up-lies.webp "Originally uploaded: December 31st, 2022<br/><br/>Youtube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/JV3klo3COoY<br/><br/>https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson<br/><br/>*I'm behind on Dailymotion<br/><br/>Original Youtube Description:<br/><br/>Make sure you can put your money where your mouth is.<br/><br/>Connect With Me:<br/>BONFIRE: NEW SHIRTS OUT NOW! https://www.bonfire.com/aleshapeterson/<br/>BONFIRE STORE: https://www.bonfire.com/store/aleshapeterson/<br/>Tik Tok: Dinnerrollgirl <br/>Facebook: Alesha \")
_232-i-saw-a-post-i-didn39t-agree-with-and-i-didn39t-get-offended.webp "Originally uploaded: December 31st, 2022<br/><br/>Youtube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/UU2Prp4RPiQ<br/><br/>https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson<br/><br/>*I'm behind on Dailymotion<br/><br/>Original Youtube Description:<br/><br/>I didn't try to change their mind eith.<br/><br/>Connect With Me:<br/>BONFIRE: NEW SHIRTS OUT NOW! https://www.bonfire.com/aleshapeterson/<br/>BONFIRE STORE: https://www.bonfire.com/store/aleshapeterson/<br/>Tik Tok: Dinnerrollgirl <br/>Facebook: Alesha \")
_230-i-don39t-fear-being-alone.webp "Originally uploaded: December 30th, 2022<br/><br/>Youtube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/z8uzFFRwRSM<br/><br/>https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson<br/><br/>*I'm behind on Dailymotion<br/><br/>Original Youtube Description:<br/><br/>I love being alone, it's when I went around untrustworthy people is when problems showed up.<br/><br/>Connect With Me:<br/>BONFIRE: NEW SHIRTS OUT NOW! https://www.bonfire.com/aleshapeterson/<br/>BONFIRE STORE: https://www.bonfire.com/store/aleshapeterson/<br/>Tik Tok: Dinnerrollgirl <br/>Facebook: Alesha \")
_226-they-say-blood-is-thicker-than-water.webp "Originally uploaded: December 27th, 2022<br/><br/>Youtube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/AcuBnSs_H3A<br/><br/>https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson<br/><br/>*I'm behind on Dailymotion<br/><br/>Original Youtube Description:<br/><br/>And when a few cousins did come around, I was at the point where I didn't trust anyone. Good luck to anyone trying to penetrate my shell. <br/><br/>Connect With Me:<br/>BONFIRE: NEW SHIRTS OUT NOW! https://www.bonfire.com/aleshapeterson/<br/>BONFIRE STORE: https://www.bonfire.com/store/aleshapeterson/<br/>Tik Tok: Dinnerrollgirl <br/>Facebook: Alesha \")
_220-if-you-are-brave-enough-to-say-goodbye.webp "Originally uploaded: December 24th, 2022<br/><br/>YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/e68c5S3uCAo<br/><br/>https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson<br/><br/>*I'm behind on Dailymotion<br/><br/>Original Youtube Description:<br/><br/>Here's another secret of mine.<br/><br/>Are you brave enough to let things go that no longer serve you? For me personally this was very difficult. And it hurt like hell. <br/><br/>One of the reasons why I didnt go with IU originally because so many of my family was there and being the only child, I'm used to and usually take my own path. But after my experiences I'm like you know what, rooting for IU isn't bad at all. It's been an adjustment and hasn't been easy, especially when you're thinking that you're going to identify one way your whole life. Cognitive Dissonance. (Mom ain't happy with it but she will get over it. Here's to being called the traitor word, love ya mom. We can joke like that.) <br/><br/>Boilermaker friends I love you but this has been a long time coming. It hasn't worked for a long time, I would be stupid af to keep pretending & fronting appearances. It was made clear to me on many different levels that I didn't matter too many times throughout the years.If you do come on over to the Bloomington side sometime, they are a lot of fun, and I'll be that Hoosier buddy for you.. They are wild, enthusiastic. And friendly to strangers. The ones I run into at basketball games struck up a random conversation. I'm like I'm a new stranger, and they treat me like I've been a Hoosier for years.<br/><br/>When my first group of friends passed, I went to Chicago & Bloomington. There's something about spending time and living other places for a bit when the unthinkable happens that's refreshing and healing. I'm very good at hiding things and the people I was with had no earthly idea how much pain I was in and the weight I carry. Thank you Chicagoans and Hoosiers for always being nice, here lately I've been closed off (don't take it personally. December has been a month these past few years when a lot of people in my life passed. I like y'all, but I like being quiet too.)<br/><br/>I don't care about what others care about. I don't want what other people want. I don't care about a new car, I wish I had my friends and loved ones that passed back. And I'm on no one's timeline. My biggest thing is you don't want to live your existence on this earth in a negative vibration. Or living to impress other people. I was very unhappy for many years because I followed the life script. <br/><br/>I said goodbye to things that crushed my soul, and said hello to things and places that brought me joy. <br/><br/>Love ya,<br/><br/>Your empathetic friend Alesha")
_219-part-2-can-you-get-rid-of-the-crab-mentality.webp "Originally uploaded: December 24th, 2022<br/><br/>YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/HQa6Z5BTTds<br/><br/>https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson<br/><br/>*I'm behind on Dailymotion<br/><br/>Original Youtube Description:<br/><br/>It cut me off in the first clip, so take 2!<br/><br/>Can you rise above the crab in the barrel mentality if called? <br/><br/>This is one of my biggest secrets, and it takes inner work.<br/><br/>I think one of the reasons why my health issues have been happening is the Universe is trying to force me to be in a position to ask for help.I think in some ways some of the posts some of you have been sharing is trying to teach me this. I'm a stubborn mf though. This same stubbornness is what made me figure out YouTube on my own like life. (I'm a Gemini, and since I'm close to Taurus zodiac sign, I pull from that Taurus stubbornness alot. You can't stop a determined Taurus, trust me, those bulls are the greatest teachers)<br/><br/>I made up my mind a long time ago that I will not be a debbie downer to my loved ones. Despite what you said throughout the years, I won't put that on you all the time. If you're happy, your happiness is my happiness. <br/><br/>YouTube (Mindset) success secret: Don't drag others down because you're down. Rise above that pettiness and crab mentality. <br/><br/>P.S. And when I do speak my mind, know I'm just going to keep it for real no matter what that looks like. Some of the things I've said on my YouTube ain't always pretty. But it needed to be said and I'm not making no apologies. Stand up for something or fall for anything.")
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