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Originally uploaded: December 25th, 2022<br/><br/>Youtube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/q7id8QkjGv8<br/><br/>https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson<br/><br/>*I'm behind on Dailymotion<br/><br/>Original Youtube Description:<br/><br/>I had a lot of so called friends play both sides of the fence, or stay silent while people talked and never defended me throughout the years. I don't consider them friends. <br/><br/>I usually defend myself, but usually the gossipers never came to me about, they went to other people and talked about me behind my back. <br/><br/>I tried to see it from my \
Originally uploaded: December 25th, 2022<br/><br/>Youtube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/q7id8QkjGv8<br/><br/>https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson<br/><br/>*I'm behind on Dailymotion<br/><br/>Original Youtube Description:<br/><br/>I had a lot of so called friends play both sides of the fence, or stay silent while people talked and never defended me throughout the years. I don't consider them friends. <br/><br/>I usually defend myself, but usually the gossipers never came to me about, they went to other people and talked about me behind my back. <br/><br/>I tried to see it from my \
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