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✓ Published: 10-May-2024
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Originally uploaded: December 23rd, 2022<br/><br/>YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/1c0f2J_PULo<br/><br/>https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson<br/><br/>*I'm behind on Dailymotion<br/><br/>Original Youtube Description:<br/><br/>Could you be happy for someone even if you are not happy in your life?<br/><br/>Story time!<br/><br/>Some things went down that ultimately changed how I saw life. Let's keep that short & simple.<br/><br/>I was determined to make it being a entrepreneur/Youtuber/etc. <br/>B/c I knew I'm going to go down this path less traveled. It's my path.<br/>It's interesting. Listening to well intentioned advice as a teen led me down a path that's no longer for me, & I realized it in my early 20s. Some of my mom's friends think I'll be good at jobs, but no thanks! My experiences at my schools jaded the normal path for me. I'll let them talk shit about me to each other & let them shoot the breeze at my expense. Love ya though. It's not the first or last time people will talk about me & I'm cool w/ it. Remember people wouldn't talk about or bother you if you were nothing. (& in some sense, people being jealous of you means you are going places in life. The celebrities you know & people who are successful didn't fit in w/ others, they stand out. Look at how many haters your favorite celebrities have & consider yourself going in the right direction).<br/><br/>The result from those school experiences was developing skills & mindsets that's not obvious & I don't talk about it (the list is still growing as I write this).Then I was like Universe, gimme a sign's more about developing skills, & letting the successes speak for itself. Learn to talk less & make more moves. <br/><br/>(Mindset) Success secret #4. It's too easy to take the crab in the barrel mentality route & drag someone down b/c you're down. Can you be one of those who elevates someone? Having a negative mindset towards others won't lead me to success.<br/><br/>P.S. 2. I'm still bad at asking for help. Just being honest. Why in the world do you all think I got content years in advance? If I don't make it happen, it won't. You literally got to take your destiny in your own hands. Have a great one.<br/><br/>P.S.3. I was given the same life script. Listening to people growing up led me to being unhappy, unfulfilled, I realized later on that I don't want the same things that everyone else has. <br/><br/>Connect With Me:<br/>BONFIRE: NEW SHIRTS OUT NOW! https://www.bonfire.com/aleshapeterson/<br/>BONFIRE STORE: https://www.bonfire.com/store/aleshapeterson/<br/>Tik Tok: Dinnerrollgirl <br/>Facebook: Alesha \
Originally uploaded: December 23rd, 2022<br/><br/>YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/1c0f2J_PULo<br/><br/>https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson<br/><br/>*I'm behind on Dailymotion<br/><br/>Original Youtube Description:<br/><br/>Could you be happy for someone even if you are not happy in your life?<br/><br/>Story time!<br/><br/>Some things went down that ultimately changed how I saw life. Let's keep that short & simple.<br/><br/>I was determined to make it being a entrepreneur/Youtuber/etc. <br/>B/c I knew I'm going to go down this path less traveled. It's my path.<br/>It's interesting. Listening to well intentioned advice as a teen led me down a path that's no longer for me, & I realized it in my early 20s. Some of my mom's friends think I'll be good at jobs, but no thanks! My experiences at my schools jaded the normal path for me. I'll let them talk shit about me to each other & let them shoot the breeze at my expense. Love ya though. It's not the first or last time people will talk about me & I'm cool w/ it. Remember people wouldn't talk about or bother you if you were nothing. (& in some sense, people being jealous of you means you are going places in life. The celebrities you know & people who are successful didn't fit in w/ others, they stand out. Look at how many haters your favorite celebrities have & consider yourself going in the right direction).<br/><br/>The result from those school experiences was developing skills & mindsets that's not obvious & I don't talk about it (the list is still growing as I write this).Then I was like Universe, gimme a sign's more about developing skills, & letting the successes speak for itself. Learn to talk less & make more moves. <br/><br/>(Mindset) Success secret #4. It's too easy to take the crab in the barrel mentality route & drag someone down b/c you're down. Can you be one of those who elevates someone? Having a negative mindset towards others won't lead me to success.<br/><br/>P.S. 2. I'm still bad at asking for help. Just being honest. Why in the world do you all think I got content years in advance? If I don't make it happen, it won't. You literally got to take your destiny in your own hands. Have a great one.<br/><br/>P.S.3. I was given the same life script. Listening to people growing up led me to being unhappy, unfulfilled, I realized later on that I don't want the same things that everyone else has. <br/><br/>Connect With Me:<br/>BONFIRE: NEW SHIRTS OUT NOW! https://www.bonfire.com/aleshapeterson/<br/>BONFIRE STORE: https://www.bonfire.com/store/aleshapeterson/<br/>Tik Tok: Dinnerrollgirl <br/>Facebook: Alesha \
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_220-if-you-are-brave-enough-to-say-goodbye.webp "Originally uploaded: December 24th, 2022<br/><br/>YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/e68c5S3uCAo<br/><br/>https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson<br/><br/>*I'm behind on Dailymotion<br/><br/>Original Youtube Description:<br/><br/>Here's another secret of mine.<br/><br/>Are you brave enough to let things go that no longer serve you? For me personally this was very difficult. And it hurt like hell. <br/><br/>One of the reasons why I didnt go with IU originally because so many of my family was there and being the only child, I'm used to and usually take my own path. But after my experiences I'm like you know what, rooting for IU isn't bad at all. It's been an adjustment and hasn't been easy, especially when you're thinking that you're going to identify one way your whole life. Cognitive Dissonance. (Mom ain't happy with it but she will get over it. Here's to being called the traitor word, love ya mom. We can joke like that.) <br/><br/>Boilermaker friends I love you but this has been a long time coming. It hasn't worked for a long time, I would be stupid af to keep pretending & fronting appearances. It was made clear to me on many different levels that I didn't matter too many times throughout the years.If you do come on over to the Bloomington side sometime, they are a lot of fun, and I'll be that Hoosier buddy for you.. They are wild, enthusiastic. And friendly to strangers. The ones I run into at basketball games struck up a random conversation. I'm like I'm a new stranger, and they treat me like I've been a Hoosier for years.<br/><br/>When my first group of friends passed, I went to Chicago & Bloomington. There's something about spending time and living other places for a bit when the unthinkable happens that's refreshing and healing. I'm very good at hiding things and the people I was with had no earthly idea how much pain I was in and the weight I carry. Thank you Chicagoans and Hoosiers for always being nice, here lately I've been closed off (don't take it personally. December has been a month these past few years when a lot of people in my life passed. I like y'all, but I like being quiet too.)<br/><br/>I don't care about what others care about. I don't want what other people want. I don't care about a new car, I wish I had my friends and loved ones that passed back. And I'm on no one's timeline. My biggest thing is you don't want to live your existence on this earth in a negative vibration. Or living to impress other people. I was very unhappy for many years because I followed the life script. <br/><br/>I said goodbye to things that crushed my soul, and said hello to things and places that brought me joy. <br/><br/>Love ya,<br/><br/>Your empathetic friend Alesha")
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